Stop playing the victim role!

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The power to change your life is in your hands, whatever you will become tomorrow lies in the choices you make today. I know people can be wicked, people can be mean and people can do all kinds of bad things to you, and it's kind of easier for you to throw all the blames at them for why your life turned out the way it is now when you should be taking responsibility for your life and moving on instead.
The greatest revenge you can ever give to those who hurt you is to forgive them and move on with your life. Show them how much better you have become without them, show them that their deeds and plots could not hold you back, take your power away from them by letting them go and thank them for the lessons they taught you, which have made you better and more aware. Stop blaming them - I know they must have hurt you so bad and left you broken - but the power to become what ever you choose is in your hands. If you are in a bad place in your life currently, you let it happened, stand up now and quit the blame game, it will only leave you in more misery and hatred which only drains your energy. Holding a grudge against those who have hurt you is like drinking a poison and expecting them to die.
 Take responsibility for your life now and be sincere with yourself, there is nothing as bad as a man decieving his own self by blaming others. Become the best version of yourself that you could ever be, remember that your result is an answer to the insults. Stop crying now, take responsibility, forgive them, move on and strive for greatness. You deserve all the happiness and love in this world, but the power to attain that level of positive energy and blessings is depending on your choices, choose to let go and be happy!

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